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Pondering Over Podcasts

“To leave a lasting imprint takes time. Otherwise we’re merely left with a façade, where the superficial is mistaken for substance.”

In an age of information bombardment, gifs, 30-second video clips, and an endless stream of headlines as we peruse through various apps, I feel that media content is moving in a circle and we’re veering our attention back to one of humanity’s first sources of mass information: radio — in the form of podcasts.

There is a beauty to long-form content in that it provides context and nuance, and gives us pause to think over what is being discussed. For, no matter the insightfulness of an article or video, if it only captures our attention for a minute or two, it’s too short to leave a lasting imprint. Our reactions will be visceral in nature, stirring our emotions more than our reason.   

So, it is without further ado, I’d like to recommend a few of my favorite podcasts:

Topping the list is This American Life, which I find endearing  due to its simplicity and breadth in the topics it covers, from major events like the 2001 WTC attacks to more mundane matters such as cops creating chaos over capturing squirrels. The topics are boundless and you’re never quite sure the direction the next episode will take you in.

Another reason why This American Life is my favorite is because there’s a timeless quality to it. Though the syndication started in 1995, listening to the majority of episodes from back then do not feel outdated since the topics center around human nature and general American themes (for free access to its full library, go to https://www.thisamericanlife.org/).

As a noted insomniac (in my post Night Owls), I enjoy listening to This American Life before I go to bed or have trouble sleeping. With my mind deported elsewhere, I soon find myself fast asleep.

A favorite of mine while I’m commuting to and from work is Hidden Brain. The topics are psychologically driven and reveal the impact our unconscious drives, biases, and contexts have on our decision-making, perceptions, and feelings. The topics don’t veer too far into the abstract but present scientific findings in a casual setting.

Radiolab is another scientific podcast but far more philosophical and abstract in nature, with some cool sound effects that enrapture you into its mood. I’d say Radiolab covers the scientific topics of a Hidden Brain but does so in a This American Life fashion, which is to leave audiences resonating with their content while taking us on unexpected turns.

I like to listen to Radiolab when I’m traveling, stuck at airports, or exploring new city routes and hiking trails. Something about the podcast instills an urge to explore the unknown.

Lastly, we have the podcast, Criminal. As can be determined from its title, this series covers various criminal acts but not in a dumbed-down fashion geared to gore or ghastliness. Instead, the podcasts give us moments of pause as we learn more about the character and contexts behind various crimes or acts of insubordination, which examine much more about human nature than the raw brutal actions we may commit.

If, for nothing else, listen to Criminal for the host’s soothing voice. After a long or stressful day, Phoebe Judge’s calming tone puts me straight to sleep as I dream of murders and mayhem.

After listening to such content, thoughts of the normal unhinge to The Weird, which I am all in favor of exploring.

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Jiro’s Lifelong Pursuit of Excellence

Released in 2011, Jiro Dreams of Sushi is a documentary that features sushi master Jiro Ono, owner of Sukiyabashi Jiro, the first sushi restaurant to score three Michelin stars. Located in a Tokyo subway station, the sushi-only restaurant seats a maximum of 10 people and costs ¥38,000 ($342 USD) per meal, which lasts approximately half an hour.

The restaurant became so popular that it eventually lost its stars because it was too difficult to get into. “We recognize [that] Sukiyabashi Jiro does not accept reservations from the general public, which makes it out of our scope,” a Michelin representative said.

So how did this 94-year-old become a world-renowned sensation? An unrelenting commitment to his craft and continuous pursuit of excellence.

Once you decide on your occupation… you must immerse yourself in your work,” said Jiro. “You have to fall in love with your work. Never complain about your job. You must dedicate your life to mastering your skill. That’s the secret of success… and is the key to being regarded honorably.”

Jiro understands that through repetition and time, one can become a master at their job. What we learn from Jiro is his impeccable attention to detail and constant drive for improvement.

Although Jiro humbly recognizes that he will never be perfect, he always strives for perfection. He is never willing to settle for good enough.

“I’ll continue to climb to try to reach the top,” said Jiro. “But no one knows where the top is!”

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The Legend of Jonny Kim

You may have heard about the legend of Jonny Kim on the internet. His accomplishments have made the rounds on Reddit.

Jocko Willink is a former Navy SEAL commander and a regular guest on Joe Rogan’s podcast. He also hosts his own podcast.

Jonny Kim appeared on Jocko’s podcast on March, 2020. The story begins with Kim recounting how he grew up with an abusive, alcoholic father in Los Angeles who was eventually killed by the police.

Kim then joined the Navy, trained to be a combat medic, went to sniper school, and finally accomplished his dream of becoming a Navy Seal under Jocko’s SEAL Team 3’s Task Unit Bruiser. After serving in two tours, he attended Harvard Medical School, and is currently working as an astronaut for NASA.

While Kim’s story begins with tragedy, followed by incredible achievements, what’s really admirable is his humble, thoughtful, and intentional demeanor. “I’m not gifted,” said Kim. “I’m not smarter than everybody else. I’m not stronger. I just have the ability to stick to a plan and not quit.”

One YouTube commenter said, “Best example of diamonds being formed under pressure.”

Another expressed, “Jonny Kim might be one of the most incredible Americans of our times,” and someone replied, “One of the most incredible humans of our time.”

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Night Owls

“Can’t sleep, close my eyes; No need, as dreams arise.”

It‘s fitting I’m writing this in the middle of the night, wide awake, and having just cracked open a beer as I’ll likely have a 4AM dinner once the hunger pangs kick in.

My life patterns are not what are deemed as normal or healthy, to which I cannot disagree. I have had a nocturnal pattern since I was eight or nine, back when I’d be forced to go to bed around 10PM by my mother, but would often find myself awake until past 3AM — as a torrent of thoughts swished through my head.

First, the ordinary reflections pass your mind, about what you did that day or want to do tomorrow, about family squabbles, friendships, and the random school assignments here and there. Then, the thoughts become more abstract after midnight hits, as I begin to contemplate about the nature of my mortality, my eventual death, God, and how is it that I am a being on this planet? Why do I exist?

Somewhat peculiar thoughts for an elementary student, but it is from lying in bed I have some of my most vivid recollections of my childhood and teenage years. Whatever the case, my natural disposition is that of an owl. And, if you can relate, I’m sure you have experienced similar nights.

“There is a beauty to the night; a stillness and quiet where I find a peace that the daytime cannot afford.”

We all know the sins to our health that sleeping late incur, so it is in this article I will list some of its benefits.

The most lasting and immediate benefit I can think of is that sleeping late grants an individual a greater intrapersonal awareness. You are more in tune with your feelings and thoughts, and gain a greater awareness of others. While the daytime grants us the focus to accomplishing immediate tasks, it is in the night we are able to think with more clarity about our long-term, more expansive goals — about what we truly aspire to do in our lives and what will define our legacies. 

A second benefit in sleeping late is we gain a greater interpersonal awareness. Even with co-workers or old classmates (back in college), our most interesting conversations always occurred after midnight, when the veneer of normality is stripped away and we feel more free to express who we are outside of our daytime selves.

I’ve worked with some of the most unassuming people who I learned much more about from one late evening of conversation than from years spent together in the office. That goodwill carries forward into the daytime as we become more pleasant and accepting of each other’s flaws at work.

“Disclosure breeds trust.”

For that intimacy to develop, however, it would be odd to have such discussions while performing perfunctory tasks in the afternoon. Some conversations are reserved for the night.

Regarding co-workers, they often wondered how I’d walk into work in the mornings with a smile beaming across my face in my twenties, even though I didn’t sleep and was hungover. When I was younger, I didn’t know what to say. I just felt happy. Today, I think I have a better understanding as to why.

Back then, I’d work 12-hour days, six-days a week for half the year. We’d end work at 10PM, then be in the office by 8AM. If all you’re doing is working, no matter the compensation, life becomes depressing. It sucks away at your soul. Since I was going out almost every night, however, I didn’t wake up feeling that same energy. I got to let out my stress through my evening activities. So, by next morning, even though I ended work late, it felt like a long time had passed since I was last in the office because I had spent the entire night out catching up with friends or meeting new people.

As many people today are struggling with staying-in during the Covid-19 pandemic, I think we’re all gaining a greater appreciation for how much spending our evenings out adds to our mental health. And, sometimes, you need an environment outside of your home or comfort zone to strike up new perceptions.  

As for relationships, if a first-date doesn’t go past midnight, likely nothing too interesting was discussed. This doesn’t mean the date was bad. It just means it will take a few more dates to get to know them better.

With more time to heed to intrapersonal and interpersonal awareness for night owls, this has led to research findings which indicate they show a greater propensity to intelligence, inductive reasoning, and creativity while also earning higher incomes than early birds (or larks).

A study by the University of Madrid revealed similar findings but, interestingly, showed that night owls perform worse academically than larks. This makes intuitive sense however. The latter are more likely to be industrious and task-oriented, while the former will be more free thinking — and tend to procrastinate as a result. Having class in the morning may also hinder their performance.

According to some scientists, an evolutionary explanation as to why night owls are more likely to be intelligent or creative is because those of us who stray from a traditional morning routine are more adaptively advanced and predisposed to novel tendencies, activities which would occur at night.

If you’re an aspiring artist or inventor, this is good news for you according to Professor Jim Horne, a sleep neuroscientist. Your best ideas probably arise during the late hours, when you’re likely to feel more energetic compared to others. While creatives tend to sleep late, more practically-minded individuals (such as those in accounting or administrative industries) will sleep much earlier.

Regarding energy, night owls also show a rise in their strength and endurance as evening approaches. So it would make more sense for you to exercise after dinner. As for sleep, they show they need less of it. According to a study in which larks and night owls were both assigned to sleep seven hours for two straight nights (then assigned various tasks throughout the day), the results showed that the latter group are not as apt to get tired or show diminishing performance results after ten hours of wakefulness. The findings indicate larks need more sleep, while night owls can continue functioning — at least for a few days — without it.

Contrary to expectations, night owls are not in the minority. In terms of preference in sleeping pattern, our habits fall under a normal distribution, with generally an even number of larks and night owls at the extreme ends — with the vast majority falling somewhere in-between.

It is likely due to the agricultural revolution of the past several thousand years (which shifted society’s routine to waking up early for farming) that explains why we still operate on a morning schedule. In a post-agrarian society, many proponents are calling for work-hours to be later or more flexible, especially with the rise of the Internet and with so many jobs online which do not require in-person interactions to operate.

There is even the Start School Later movement which has gained momentum since the 1990s, where sleep scientists, educators, and health care professionals have called on schools to start no earlier than 8:30AM since young people tend to sleep later than adults. With such a change, studies have shown improved academic performance and less behavioral problems in pupils such as impulsivity, truancy, and depression.

Are we ready for such a shift?

My childhood self sure would have appreciated it. Too many of my mornings were spent asleep by 3rd period…

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The Zen of Clean

In Japan, cleaning is a normal, routine, and daily responsibility. We clean our office before work, we clean the dojo floor before practice, even school children are taught to clean the classroom before lessons. Before going into public bathes or hot springs, the Japanese wash, scrub, and clean their bodies. Prior to New Year’s, it is customary ritual in Japan to clean your home and office. Marie Kondo has made the art of cleanliness into a global cultural phenomenon. Cleanliness has been even more prevalent and important to public health and safety during the Covid pandemic.

Japanese school children cleaning the floor

Why do the Japanese focus time to what is considered a menial task by Western standards? I believe the answer is both simple and complex. First, by cleaning we show a gratitude for the things we have and we become more attached to them. Second, by cleaning we begin a deeper understanding of our ourselves and of our relationship with our belongings. I believe that is why baseball players apply pine tar to their bats. Functionally, it will improve bat grip, but more importantly, there is a connection and understanding between the player and his bat. There are countless examples of this behavior, surfers applying wax to their boards, motorcyclists cleaning and maintaining their bikes, or chefs cleaning and sharpening their knives.

Hiroshi Mikitani of Rakuten explains the relationship between man and inanimate objects, “cleaning your workspace is a simple, easy way to remind yourself that you value the work your doing. It sets the stage, both physically and mentally, for you to achieve something great. Value the space you are in. Take the moment, put it on your calendar, make it a ritual. Do this and I am sure you will become more successful.”

The simple act of cleaning your physical and mental workspaces will benefit us all.

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The Complex Yet Pivotal Nature of Relationships

Relationships are difficult and anyone who tells you that they have a perfect relationship is full of it.

That said, what are the most important factors in relationships?

In HBO’s 2017 documentary, “Becoming Warren Buffet,” one of the world’s most successful investors said that the most important decision in your life is who you choose to marry.

There have been two turning points in his life, “One when I came out of the womb and one when I met Susie,” said Buffett of his first wife, who died in 2004. “What happened with me would not have happened without her.”

Melinda Gates, who runs the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation with her husband agrees, “If you choose to have a partner in life, whoever you choose is probably the most important decision you make.” She adds that it’s “even more important than what career you have, where you go to college, where you go to high school.”

Aside from choosing the right partner, is there anything else we can learn about relationships in general?

Buffett says, “You will move in the direction of the people that you associate with, so it’s important to associate with people that are better than yourself.

He adds, “Basically, when you get to my age, you’ll really measure your success in life by how many of the people you want to have love you actually do love you.

“I know people who have a lot of money, and they get testimonial dinners and hospital wings named after them. But the truth is that nobody in the world loves them. If you get to my age in life and nobody thinks well of you, I don’t care how big your bank account is — your life is a disaster. That’s the ultimate test of how you have lived your life.”

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Break Out of Your Comfort Zone

Operating within a safe environment is great for peace of mind. But, the real growth happens when you venture out of your comfort zone.

Challenging yourself to learn something new is inconvenient, however, if you put in the work to learn and apply your findings, you’ll end up in a more advanced place.

This is how growth occurs.

The first step is to find out what your strengths are. Then, build around those strengths with your natural interests. By focusing on your strengths, you’ll improve your chance of succeeding. By building around your interests, the likelihood of being passionate about that subject will increase and provide the motivation to keep going and not burn out.

Take one step. Then another. Be consistent and challenge yourself. Eventually you’ll be far from where you started.

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Live in the Moment

There are three distinct times in our lives. The past, present, and future.

Along with being nostalgic, it’s easy to get stuck in the past and dwell on things that you wish you could have done differently. That’s a major mental trap I actively work on overcoming many times a week.

Then there’s the future. Always working hard to try to achieve a better life. One that will be more fruitful. Working hard today to reap the benefits of tomorrow.

And lastly the present. The most difficult to appreciate as it’s always fleeting.

I’ve always told myself that in order to be happy in the future, I need to be happy today. Money and success won’t manifest long-term, sustainable euphoria. And while objects like houses, cars, and a large savings account bring security, comfort, and fun, they won’t bring the deepest level of self-fulfillment, harmony, and balance.

It’s meaningful relationships and purpose in my work that gets me out of bed every day. These two combine well together as I share my successes and failures with my family, friends, and team.

I often ask myself why I work as much as I do. I tell myself it’s because I enjoy it, because I’m passionate about it. Am I brainwashing myself? The fact that it motivates me to keep pushing forward is justification enough.

It’s hard to not live in the past or the future but it’s imperative to appreciate every single moment of the present because time is fleeting and will be gone before you know it.